Does She Love You or Control You? The Dark Side of Your Relationship in 7 Questions

Recall the early days of your relationship. Did everything start move excessively fast and feel perfect?

A) No, everything was normal and slow. B) It was a bit fast, but I liked it. C) Yes, it was like a movie; she showered me with affection (Love Bombing).

When arguing, do you end up feeling guilty even though you knew you were right?

A) Rarely, we usually find a middle ground. B) Often, but maybe I'm just misunderstanding things. C) Always! I end up apologizing to her, but I don't even understand what happened.

Do you feel the need to hide a message or notification on your phone from her? (Even if it's nothing secretive)

A) No, there is complete trust between us. B) Sometimes, because I don't want her asking unnecessary questions. C) Yes, because I know she will start a huge fight over every little thing.

Have your friends or family warned you about her?

A) No, everyone likes her very much. B) One or two people said something, but they don't really know her. C) My inner circle tells me to stay away, so I've reduced seeing them.

What do you feel when you imagine a future without her?

A) Sadness, but life would go on. B) Emptiness and fear. C) Deep panic and a feeling of "I am nothing without her."

Does she often create a sense of "competition" by comparing you to other men (ex-boyfriends or friends)?

A) No, she accepts me as I am. B) Sometimes she does it jokingly, which makes me a bit uncomfortable. C) Yes, she constantly cites someone as an example and I try to prove myself to her.

Be honest: Do you feel like you are "walking on eggshells" around her? (Afraid that any wrong word will cause an explosion...)

A) I'm completely relaxed, I can be myself. B) There is tension every now and then, but it passes. C) Yes, I'm tired of weighing every step and every word.